What people of class, charm, and etiquette keep in mind...1. Escorts love their work.
2. There is nothing "wrong" about hiring an escort.
3. Escorts offer their companionship.
4. Escorts don't talk about sex. Neither should you!
5. Your ID should be available when contacting an escort.
6. Leave the money (donation) out in plain view when meeting your escort.
7. Do not talk about sex before or during the session. When she's comnfortable, she may bring it up.
8. Make her uncomfortable and she won't relax, she won't trust you, and you will not have a good time.
9. Don't ask for personal information. Respect her privacy.
Escorts love their work.
Many people assume that Escorts are "forced", "driven" or otherwise lead into the industry for reasons other than their own. This is absolutely not true and the very idea that it is extremely condescending. By expressing this idea, one implies that the intelligent, independent women who make up this industry cannot intelligently choose what careeries and hobbies enrich their lives the most. Do not make this mistake. Escorts love their work! Otherwise they wouldn't be doing what they do.
There is nothing "wrong" about hiring an escort.
Thousands of men and women from all walks of life enjoy and take pleasure in the company of escorts each and every single day. Some do so because their work leaves them little time to socialize. For others, the efforts and uncertainties of hopping bars and dating online are not worth the effort, energy, and time. Others simply enjoy the thrill an escort often bring to the table. What could possibly be “wrong” about peaceful, enjoyable, consensual human interaction? The people who tell you this is wrong want nothing more than to control you and your life.
Escorts offer their companionship.
If you are going to hire an escort, you need to understand how to communicate with her over the phone or email. You are hiring her for her companionship. Nothing else. Anything that results from your time together is personal, private, and is purely consentual.
Escorts do not talk about sex. And neither should you!
Again, if you are going to hire an escort, you need to understand how to communicate with her. Sexual conversation and emails will get you nowhere with her. For all she knows, you are a vice cop. She will not discuss anything other than her companionship with you until you earn her trust.
Your ID should be available when contacting an escort.
Do not be suprised or offended if your escort requires you to show ID. Sure, it may unsettle your nerves, but don't be so self-centered. Consider her. Your escort is far more nervous about you potentially being a vice cop. This is why she wants to verify your identity. So don't take it personally.
Leave the money (or donation) out in plain view when meeting your escort.
Do not not hand it to her. Do not talk about “buying” her services. This can get her into trouble and will make her feel very uneasy about you. Simply lay your money out where she can see it and focus on having a great time.
Do not talk about sex before or during your time with your escort. When she is comfortable, she may bring it up.
This is here again because it cannot be stressed enough. You can have a fantastic time with an escort. But you will need to play by the rules. Otherwise she could get into trouble. Do not talk about sex with her. If she's comfortable talking about it with you, she will. She knows what she is doing.
Make her uncomfortable and she won't relax, she won't trust you, and you will not have a good time.
This means following the above guidelines. It also means being a gentleman. Your escort is a proud and independent woman. She has better things to do with her time than to put up with someone who disrespects her. Treat her like the intelligent, rational human being that she is. She'll do the same for you. That is, unless that's not what you want ; )
Don't ask for personal information. Respect her privacy.
This is just common sense. If you ask and she feels uncomfortable, all you'll do is make your time together feel awkward. Escorts often withold their personal information from every client for very important, professional reasons. There is nothing personal about it.